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https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/eb3db80b29f6083ecd0b470de7444e90fe76e7d41cb9194393f4c5_640_labels-e1515882698244.png500305The thing I suspect many people worry about, and something that makes me crazy to be honest, is when people see "abuse victim", or especially "sexual abuse victim", and their brain immediately takes the shortcut to everything society says about that label. Being a survivor of childhood abuse is not "one" thing, but having your identity boiled down to that "one" thing, is dehumanizing. This is especially true when the stereotypes that we believe about survivors, don't match who we really are!