{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Survivors News and Reviews","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews","title":"Sharing - I'm NOT going to heal everything","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"f0i1hNf2Fb\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2023\/10\/31\/sharing-im-not-going-to-heal-everything\/\">Sharing &#8211; I&#8217;m NOT going to heal everything<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2023\/10\/31\/sharing-im-not-going-to-heal-everything\/embed\/#?secret=f0i1hNf2Fb\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Sharing &#8211; I&#8217;m NOT going to heal everything&#8221; &#8212; Survivors News and Reviews\" data-secret=\"f0i1hNf2Fb\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/ec32b10720f71c3e81584d04ee44408be273eadd1eb718449df8_640_breathe-e1511357928142.jpg","thumbnail_width":500,"thumbnail_height":333,"description":"It's all forward-looking. It celebrates how far I've come without constantly constantly reminding myself of what I haven't done. In Todd's words, it allows me to simply be human, like every other adult. In the end, isn't that what we all want, to not see ourselves as the freak abuse survivor, but as an adult like other adults? With strengths and weaknesses, with quirks, and with success alongside failures?  We need to let ourselves be human and create a life where we can feel safe to be human."}