{"id":20609,"date":"2026-03-27T07:22:51","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T12:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=20609"},"modified":"2026-03-27T07:22:51","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T12:22:51","slug":"sharing-if-you-want-to-build-community-you-have-to-waste-time-with-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2026\/03\/27\/sharing-if-you-want-to-build-community-you-have-to-waste-time-with-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing &#8211; If You Want to Build Community, You Have to \u201cWaste Time\u201d with People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is interesting from a personal and professional standpoint:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>For many people, pausing can feel impossible when you\u2019re working hard just to make ends meet. But even small moments of connection can matter. Just 10\u201315 minutes of unhurried conversation or shared presence can\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/sites\/default\/files\/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf\" rel=\"\">help calm the body\u2019s stress response<\/a>\u00a0and give our nervous system a chance to reset.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivekmurthy.substack.com\/p\/if-you-want-to-build-community-you\">https:\/\/vivekmurthy.substack.com\/p\/if-you-want-to-build-community-you<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I work from home, so most of my time with other people is structured toward goals. I try not to make all of the time that way, though, and one of the nice things about this past week, as I made office visits to spend time with my team members, was the opportunity to take them to lunch and have a very unstructured conversation. Did we talk about work during part of that? 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