{"id":21319,"date":"2026-09-16T19:56:59","date_gmt":"2026-09-17T00:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=21319"},"modified":"2026-09-16T19:56:59","modified_gmt":"2026-09-17T00:56:59","slug":"sharing-when-the-alarm-wont-stop-ringing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2026\/09\/16\/sharing-when-the-alarm-wont-stop-ringing\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing &#8211; When the Alarm Won\u2019t Stop Ringing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The subtitle of the article says it all about the subject matter:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Intrusive thoughts, irrational fears, and a brain that doesn\u2019t always know best<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/becomingreal.substack.com\/p\/when-the-alarm-wont-stop-ringing\">https:\/\/becomingreal.substack.com\/p\/when-the-alarm-wont-stop-ringing<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Intrusive thoughts are more common than many of us think. I&#8217;ve had them; I still have them. 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