{"id":3649,"date":"2015-08-28T06:45:09","date_gmt":"2015-08-28T13:45:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=3649"},"modified":"2020-12-31T20:19:25","modified_gmt":"2021-01-01T04:19:25","slug":"reading-bonded-to-the-abuser-how-victims-make-sense-of-childhood-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2015\/08\/28\/reading-bonded-to-the-abuser-how-victims-make-sense-of-childhood-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Reading &#8211; Bonded to the Abuser: How Victims Make Sense of Childhood Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure style=\"width: 303px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" title=\"Library books by faungg's photos\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/6425808881_cb0ebe7c9f_books.jpg?resize=303%2C198&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"books photo\" width=\"303\" height=\"198\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><small><a style=\"text-decoration: none;\" title=\"Image inserted by the ImageInject WordPress plugin\" href=\"http:\/\/wpinject.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Photo<\/a> by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/44534236@N00\/6425808881\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">faungg&#8217;s photos<\/a> <a title=\"Attribution-NoDerivs License\" href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nd\/2.0\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-inject\/images\/cc.png?w=1290&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/small><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Great book review by Amy and Mel! 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