{"id":4130,"date":"2016-02-23T06:30:28","date_gmt":"2016-02-23T14:30:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=4130"},"modified":"2016-02-23T06:30:28","modified_gmt":"2016-02-23T14:30:28","slug":"link-dont-talk-blogger-action-steps-mental-health-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2016\/02\/23\/link-dont-talk-blogger-action-steps-mental-health-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Link &#8211; Don\u2019t Talk to a Blogger: Action Steps for Mental Health Help"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:2504,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/ift.tt\\\/1oZdblK&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/ift.tt\\\/1oZdblK&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;In all honesty, my hands are tied when it comes to helping my readers. All I can do is encourage you to reach out to real help \u2013 someone in your life that can really help you. All I can do is encourage you to take an action step.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I get the frustration of this blogger. I try very had to make this site welcoming, and to communicate that people dealing with depression and child abuse aren&#8217;t alone in doing that. On the other hand, I&#8217;m not a therapist, I&#8217;m not a social service, and I&#8217;m not a fundraiser. Don&#8217;t come to me if you need immediate mental health help, or if you&#8217;re trying to raise funds for people I don&#8217;t know, etc. I&#8217;m one guy writing a blog. I&#8217;m not in a position to vet every case of alleged abuse, nor am I in a position to offer support services to survivors. I&#8217;m more than happy to share whatever information I may have, and try to do that here, but please, if you find yourself in need of assistance, take a step toward getting that help. 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