{"id":4143,"date":"2016-02-27T05:45:21","date_gmt":"2016-02-27T13:45:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=4143"},"modified":"2020-12-20T12:58:36","modified_gmt":"2020-12-20T20:58:36","slug":"link-civil-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2016\/02\/27\/link-civil-war\/","title":{"rendered":"Link &#8211; Civil War"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:2500,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/lauraparrottperry.com\\\/2015\\\/02\\\/26\\\/civil-war&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;No one gets to judge how you managed to survive, friends. \u00a0No one. \u00a0No one gets to shame you for whatever you did to get yourself to the place where you can live through feeling the pain. \u00a0Not even you.<br \/>\nYou survived, honey. \u00a0Not everyone does, you know.<br \/>\nYou miraculous girl. \u00a0You miraculous boy. \u00a0You clever, resilient child, you.<br \/>\nYou can stop hurting yourself. \u00a0You can shed your armor, and still be safe. \u00a0You can be seen, and still be safe. \u00a0You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for. \u00a0You are being held hostage. \u00a0Meet the demands. \u00a0Feel the pain. \u00a0It will take some courage, but we already know how brave you are. \u00a0You are so, so brave.<br \/>\nYou are strong enough to walk through the pain, and into the sunlight- I promise you. 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