{"id":4376,"date":"2016-06-05T07:09:47","date_gmt":"2016-06-05T14:09:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=4376"},"modified":"2016-06-04T21:11:06","modified_gmt":"2016-06-05T04:11:06","slug":"link-sex-13-year-old-student-not-hot-rape","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2016\/06\/05\/link-sex-13-year-old-student-not-hot-rape\/","title":{"rendered":"Link &#8211; Having Sex With A 13-Year-Old Student Is NOT Hot, It&#8217;s RAPE"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>News flash: It is never ok to rape\u00a0a child.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately this is an ongoing epidemic that happens all the time. Whenever you see headlines about teacher\/student relationships, they all tend to focus on the teacher\u2019s level of attractiveness, not on what\u2019s really important; the fact that a child\u2019s life has been severely changed\u00a0by these teacher\u2019s acts of sexual assault.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know how much therapy some of these kids will need after this?<\/p>\n<p>Christopher Anderson, Executive Director of\u00a0MaleSurvivor\u00a0explains, &#8220;Whenever an adult with power an authority chooses to engage a child in sexual activity it is not a fantasy, it is not &#8220;hot&#8221;, it is not a dream come true. The correct term for this is abuse. Plain and simple.\u00a0Many of the male victims of these molestations are kept in silent suffering because so many people think it&#8217;s better to make jokes about teachers raping students than it is to offer survivors our support.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Unfortunately, we have come to accept certain narratives about sex that are hard to break, or that some people benefit from so they have no desire to break. One of them, of course, is that women can&#8217;t rape males, because males, no matter the age, are always &#8220;up for it&#8221;. 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