{"id":6483,"date":"2018-06-05T06:58:03","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T13:58:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/?p=6483"},"modified":"2018-06-04T14:00:10","modified_gmt":"2018-06-04T21:00:10","slug":"link-why-were-psychologically-hardwired-to-blame-the-victim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childabusesurvivor.net\/reviews\/2018\/06\/05\/link-why-were-psychologically-hardwired-to-blame-the-victim\/","title":{"rendered":"Link &#8211; Why we&#8217;re psychologically hardwired to blame the victim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been saying this for a while now, too.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;We want to think that if we do the right thing, it\u2019s all going to be OK,\u201d says Hamby. \u201cIt\u2019s threatening to see other people not be OK, so we want to come up with an explanation of why that experience won\u2019t happen to us.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s not so much that we blame the victim as it is trying to find a way to reassure ourselves that we won&#8217;t be the next one, which is terrifying to consider. 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