Child Abuse Survivor Blog

  • Hand Holding

    Recently, in conversation with my massage therapist, she mentioned to me that any time she is working on me and feels like I’m stressed, thinking about work, or just not allowing myself to relax, she knows that simply rubbing my palm will immediately help me relax my body and she can get back to work….

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    What We Expect

    As I was sitting in the airport yesterday, I started to notice the number of people complaining about various things about air travel, and I thought to myself that, yes, there are plenty of things to complain about, but some of what was being said just really wasn’t accurate. It seems to me that a…

  • The Cast

      I saw this over the weekend while window shopping, and it struck me as something very appropriate for my life. I spent a lot of time trying to figure out the plot, why things happened, why my childhood was what it was, why I was the way I was, etc. In all that time,…

  • Andy Murray Overcomes Childhood Trauma

    Reading this article about how Andy Murray survived the Dunblane school shooting got me thinking about childhood abuse survivors and the people who are constantly telling us that abused kids are doomed to a lifetime of pain. While it’s true that Andy Murray was not a victim of abuse, I don’t believe there’s any question…

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    The Word Is Out

    The other day, while contemplating this site and the original purpose of it, I was struck by something profound, and sort of wonderful. Almost 12 years ago, I moved what had been a fledgling little website about being a survivor, and turned it into a blog. When I did that, I vowed to use this…