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Link – Toilet Paper People: Cherry Tigris in Nashville on March 24th

ByMikeM Reading Time: 1 minute

If you’re familiar with the book “Toilet Paper People”, or live in Nashville, check this out. Cherry is putting on an event to help young people with PTSD find their own creative voice in the same way that she has found hers.

If you aren’t in Nashville and want to help, you can also purchase a ticket and she will donate the proceeds to a local PTSD charity for any unused tickets. Let her know you came from here by using “Donation” as the first name on the ticket and “ChildAbuseSurvivor” as the last if you don’t want to put your name on a ticket.

Personally, I won’t be able to attend, but it sounds like a fun event if you can!

Toilet Paper People: Cherry Tigris in Nashville on March 24th

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