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Sharing – When Being Alone Feels Safer Than Being Seen
ByMikeM October 8, 2025October 13, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

She goes on to opine that very few people in the world can actually provide safety. It may seem like a damning statement, but I believe there’s a lot of truth to it as well. How many of us can sit with others’ stories? Honestly sit with it. Let them share it without having an uncomfortable response. Based on my experience, she is correct. There aren’t many people who can do that. I am glad I’ve had some in my life. I also know that makes me lucky. I strive to be that kind of person to others, even as I acknowledge that there are times when I fall short. I probably fall short more often than not.

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Sharing – Healed is a Myth and Marketing Tool
ByMikeM October 1, 2025September 30, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

So many survivors want the answer to that first question. They want to know when this will be over and done with, but that’s not realistic. It would be like me asking when will I be “healed” from diabetes. I won’t be. My disease is something that is part of me that I have to manage. I take medicine, I watch what I eat, I don’t drink, etc. That’s not going to end. I fully understand that there is no future version of me where I don’t have to do any of those things.

Similarly, there is no future version of me that isn’t a survivor of child abuse. It happened. There is no cure I can buy that will create a version of me where I didn’t have that experience and be shaped by it. That’s not to say that I cannot have a great life, but I will always have a life impacted by those events.

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Sharing – New research illustrates how live events foster social connection
ByMikeM September 23, 2025September 21, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

If we’re going to become a less lonely society, we need to take advantage of opportunities to gather together. It’s that simple. It’s also becoming more challenging to do as we hide behind social media and news media, more interested in keeping us afraid of “others” so that we will continue to give them our attention.

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Sharing – The startling emotional health benefits of serving others
ByMikeM September 22, 2025September 21, 2025 Reading Time: 1 minute

We talk about loneliness as a mental health issue often. We complain about the lack of third spaces in society. We complain about how people don’t reach out anymore. What we likely don’t talk enough about is how volunteering to help other people is an antidote to all of that.

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How to Make Sure Someone is “Seen”
ByMikeM September 16, 2025September 16, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

It doesn’t sound like much. At the same time, we see so little of this in our daily interactions that it doesn’t take much to stand out as a good partner, friend, or boss. The bar is not set very high, but it does require sitting still with someone and focusing on them for that time.

How often can most of us say we do that?

Is it any wonder we have such a problem with loneliness?

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Sharing – What suicidal teens say matters most to them
ByMikeM September 12, 2025September 11, 2025 Reading Time: 1 minute

I don’t claim to have all of the answers to the challenge of suicide prevention, but the basics are relatively straightforward. This research into teenagers shows us precisely what keeps people alive:

Despite high suicide risk, most teens can identify reasons to live, from family bonds to small future dreams – offering hope for prevention.

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