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Sharing – One Conversation At a Time, We Continue

ByMikeM Reading Time: 1 minute

On the heels of more tragedy over the holiday weekend in the US, this is such a great reminder.

“One of the messages we emphasize most at Active Minds is that you don’t have to be an expert to help. There are ways to support those around you that are coping with the struggles from either directly experiencing the ills of this world or from the pain caused by seeing others experience them. And, those around you don’t have to be experts to help you, either. Through empathetic and compassionate conversations, partnered with purposeful and tangible actions, we can be part of the solution to our broken world for our families, our communities, and – therefore – our nation. We can’t fix all the problems in this world for everyone, but we can control how we show up for those around us with our voices, our words, and our actions.”

There is truly nothing else for me to add.

https://www.activeminds.org/blog/one-conversation-at-a-time-we-continue/

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