Unpopular Opinion, The Kids Online Safety Act is Going to Harm More Kids than it ProtectsPin
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Unpopular Opinion, The Kids Online Safety Act is Going to Harm More Kids than it Protects

If you’ve not heard about the Kids Online Safety Act, there’s a good rundown of why it’s not what most people think it is on Techdirt.

Senator Blumenthal Pretends To Fix KOSA; It’s A Lie

There are two things in all of these proposals to “make the internet safe for kids” that only worsen things for many kids and adults.

  1. First, any identity verification system for adults will end with identities stolen and people’s internet usage tracked by malicious actors. Having to prove your identity before you access most parts of the internet is unacceptable. It’s a violation of privacy and free speech, which includes the right to speak anonymously. Systems like this are a target for hackers and scammers. This bill will harm plenty of adults who are doing nothing illegal.
  2. Secondly, kids will be unable to access information vital to their well-being. As Techdirt has pointed out already, the Republican sponsors of this bill are hoping to use it to block LGBTQ kids from accessing any information. That’s just a start. Are kids looking for mental health information? That is not going to happen. Kids who are being abused are looking for information and resources to escape. Nope. That won’t be available to them.

Let me prove it to you because some social media is already trying to comply, and I think this is a preview of what is to come.

As many of you know, I run a Facebook page with the same name as this blog, Child Abuse Survivor. I also have a secondary profile with the same name. If you click on either of those links, you will be taken directly to them. If, however, you are on Facebook and want to search using that name (or anything about child abuse survivors), you won’t get to any of those resources that might provide information for you.

Error message from Facebook stating that child abuse is illegal with no search results. Pin

Your choices – Report abuse or a page that encourages you to get help to avoid abusing children. If you’re a kid who has been abused and want to connect with other survivors or read information about healing, etc.? You won’t get anything from a Facebook search. It’s blocked. Content that might talk about surviving child abuse is too dangerous, I guess.

This is why the idea that we can block access to content about abuse, LGBTQ information, mental health resources, etc., is going to end up making it harder for the people who need that information and need connection to get what they need.

I get it. The people who write these laws live in a world where kids all have a loving family who cares about them and want only to protect them from the evil that exists “out there.” They will provide whatever help and information their kids need, and there’s no need for them to navigate the wildness of the internet.  But we make information available to kids online because that’s not their reality. They don’t have supportive parents, they get kicked out for being gay, they are being abused at home, they are dealing with mental health issues their parents refuse to acknowledge, and they are often alone in trying to get help.

Those kids need an open internet. As a teen, I would have benefited from having an open internet, but it didn’t exist yet. So, I wrongly assumed child abuse was something only happening in my family and kept my mouth shut about it.

There are ways to protect kids. I wrote about them just yesterday. We enact rules that create fewer vulnerable kids. This isn’t the way.

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    Dan was kind enough to leave me a comment with both a pointer to his blog about being a male survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and also a pointer to malesurvivor.org. His blog is intensely personal and quite moving, while the other site is a very useful resource for male survivors.

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    Why Did So Many Adults Minimize the Abuse in US Gymnastics?

    So, when I look at a highly successful program like US gymnastics, like Penn State football, like USA Swimming, like English Youth Football, etc. I think we can clearly see this. Why be such a downer, don’t you see how much good this program, and the people in it, are doing? It’s probably nothing, just some misunderstanding by over-imaginative kids. Nothing to worry about, look at the success we are having in the field, gym, or water. That’s what this is all about. That’s the important thing. The rest of this will pass.

    Except in the case of US Gymnastics, these ladies, and dozens of others, have not simply let it pass. They have remained steadfast in talking about it, making sure they can do everything they can to make sure it doesn’t happen to the next generation and reminding all of us that winning at all costs, is not worth the damage that is done to children who are sexually abused.

    They are truly resilient, like many of us who have survived sexual abuse, and gone on to talk about it, share our own stories, and live our adult lives. But never confuse that resiliency with how hard it really is to do. Never look at a survivor who has appeared to overcome their abuse, and assume that it’s ok to diminish what happened to them. It’s never easy, and for each one who might appear to have overcome, I’ll show you 5 who are still struggling every single day. You’ll find many of them in prison, or mental health care centers. Still dealing with the aftermath of their childhood trauma without access to the same support and resources that we lucky few have had the privilege to have. Yet they are all human beings, and they were all children once, children who had to suffer at the hands of adults who were more interested in their own pleasures, comfort, and place in their society than they were to consider the damage being done to these children.

    Don’t be one of those adults. There are many ways to abuse a child. Larry Nassar did and is paying for his crimes, finally. But there were a whole lot of other adults who abused these girls, by not taking it seriously, not investigating, and not caring enough about them as human beings to protect them. Make no mistake about that.

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