Links (weekly)
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Boxer Quanitta Underwood’s Inspiring Fight Against Sexual Abuse — and for Olympic Gold
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Child Abuse at Miramonte Elementary School & Keeping Children Safe!
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Boxer Quanitta Underwood’s Inspiring Fight Against Sexual Abuse — and for Olympic Gold
tags: CA
Child Abuse at Miramonte Elementary School & Keeping Children Safe!
tags: CA
What to do if you suspect your child is being abused
tags: CA
4 Things to Remember When You Can’t Take It Anymore
tags: CA
How To Support a Survivor of Sexual Abuse
tags: CA
Protecting your child from sexual abuse
tags: CA
Posted from Diigo. The rest of my favorite links are here.
An honest look at one survivor’s journey, struggles, victories, and all! I always find it interesting to see others documenting the things they have learned on their journey toward overcoming child abuse. Each of us has a unique journey to take, and yet we can learn so much from each other as well. 39 Things…
The movie Boys and Men Healing, which has been screening in various places, and gotten pretty rave reviews from the male survivor community, is now available on DVD. You can order it over on the Big Voice Pictures website. If you’ve seen the movie, or get the DVD and watch it sometime soon, let us…
Some more myths about mental illness thanks to the Society for Human Resource Management: http://blog.shrm.org/blog/5-myths-about-mental-illness I especially like the fact that, as an organization that deals with the workplace environment, they are willing to say that workers dealing with mental illness struggles are not bad workers, unstable or potentially violent in any larger degree than…
So yes: those of us that are hurting want you to pray for us. Pray for your family member who’s depressed. Pray for your fellow church member whose anxiety has kept then from attending in weeks. Pray for the person who you’ve heard is battling an addiction or a manic episode or any other thing. And…
Kids who show the signs of struggling with mental health issues do a heck of a lot better if we intervene. Sadly, we don’t do it enough. Sometimes it’s because we don’t have any intervention to offer them. There are no resources available to far too many families. Other times parents and adults are afraid to look for help due to the stigma associated with mental health issues, hoping the kid will grow out of it.
Every survivor has the freedom to choose how, when, and in what detail, they want to share their story. You can ask for more, but you also have to respect the survivor’s choice to not answer. They don’t owe you that. The only time it’s really even appropriate to press for details if you’re a criminal prosecutor trying to help the survivor bring the abuser to justice.
Outside of that very specific situation? No, we don’t owe you anything. You can support a survivor without knowing all the details. In fact, respecting their boundaries around what they decide to share, is one great way to support them in their healing. They’ve already had too many people not respect their boundaries.