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Sharing – Sexual violence within families: – It’s not a private matter
There isn’t a week that goes by that I don’t read a story in the news, or on social media that follows a similar path.
Child abused by a family member
The child tells someone in the family
The child isn’t believed or is accused of trying to embarrass the family.
Or, the child tells someone outside of the family
The child isn’t believed, or the person doesn’t want to make trouble for the parents.Sharing – Here’s How to Actually Talk to Little Kids About Sex
Since you didn’t, and school isn’t allowed to, teach them someone else will. It might be online or in person, but there is nothing more attractive to real pedophiles than kids who lack the basic skills and open communication with adults to tell on them.
Kids who are aware of their bodies and their place in the world can openly talk about sex with trusted and safe adults, understand what it means to be LGBTQ in some basic fashion and what to do when someone makes them feel threatened, making for poor targets. That’s not grooming; that’s teaching them basic self-defense. That’s teaching them the truth and the basics of reality.
I know a lot of supporters and people in the child abuse community don’t want to hear this, but I will not stand by while we practice things that make children less safe. Lacking knowledge about these topics does that. You’re not protecting them. You’re endangering them.
Links I’m Sharing (weekly)
Misinformation Crusader: Writing About Mental Illness Crisis text lines, apps offer online suicide prevention alternative Mental Health Professionals are Susceptible to Stigma, Too Elizabeth Smart tries to be the one voice that makes a difference Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in a Nutshell Linked: Writing a thank-you note is more powerful than you think World Mental…
RT @SurvivorNetwork: This Week’s Links (weekly): Understanding the needs of male sexual assault victims — Shed light on violence —… http…
RT @SurvivorNetwork: This Week’s Links (weekly): Understanding the needs of male sexual assault victims — Shed light on violence —… http…
RT @SurvivorNetwork: This Week’s Links (weekly): Understanding the needs of male sexual assault victims — Shed light on violence —… http…
RT @SurvivorNetwork: This Week’s Links (weekly): Understanding the needs of male sexual assault victims — Shed light on violence —… http…