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The Other Mental Health Crisis – Older Men
ByMikeM July 18, 2025July 18, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

I don’t think we are on a path to create that world. I think a world where human beings are valued based on how much money they make and how “strong” they are does not even care if older men are lost. They feel like a burden because society treats them like one. How much could they contribute to our community if we didn’t think that way? If we had a community that involved them instead of isolating them, and a healthcare system that didn’t cause people to go bankrupt because they grew old and became sick, perhaps we’d find out.

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Sharing – Why Lifelong Learning Feeds the Soul
ByMikeM July 16, 2025July 16, 2025 Reading Time: 1 minute

That description of restlessness is familiar to me. That’s how I feel when I’m not engaged in learning something. That’s why I remain curious about the things I care about and why I share so much here and elsewhere online. It’s a motivation for me to continue learning, and that, in turn, helps my mental health.

It’s self-care for me.

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Sharing – The impact of non-recent child sexual abuse on the wider family
ByMikeM July 12, 2025July 12, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

As I’ve mentioned before, I didn’t wait until my 40s or 50s to tell someone about my abuse, and my family found out about it in my 20s, primarily due to my roommate having to answer their questions about my mental health breakdown. I didn’t get to choose whether my parents found out, but I’m also thankful that he went ahead and had that difficult conversation with them. I needed them to know what happened so that they could be part of my life while I tried to heal my mental health.

On the other hand, I would be lying if I said everything in the family was great after that. It’s complicated and occasionally messy.

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Sharing – The Second Betrayal: The Hidden Factor That Makes Childhood Trauma So Devastating
ByMikeM July 11, 2025July 10, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

It’s no wonder that I felt alone. I was alone. I was also lucky in finding someone else who was willing to tell their secret in my 20s. Most survivors remain alone with their trauma for decades. Even when they go about their lives, marry, have families, etc., they live alone in their trauma. Others tried to tell someone and weren’t believed, which is a level of being alone that I cannot imagine.

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Sharing – Simple social rituals like eye contact and small talk are psychologically powerful
ByMikeM July 4, 2025July 4, 2025 Reading Time: 1 minute

If you’re like me and don’t want to be open to lengthy conversations with strangers, this article is good news. Even small connections, a smile, a nod, or a pleasant “hello,” have mental health benefits.

It might also remind us of the humanity of the people around us. There are worse things.

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Sharing – Place Matters
ByMikeM July 2, 2025July 2, 2025 Reading Time: 2 minutes

The question isn’t just about making therapy available to more people, though that is important. It’s also about eliminating the environmental factors that cause harm to our mental health. Those will vary depending on where we live. What works in Louisiana is not what works in New York. What is needed here is different because the environment is different.

Most of all, can we even see the issues as they apply to different places? If we can’t see that, how do we see the problems faced by any individual?

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