Healing

  • Sharing – Toxic Childhood? 10 Lessons You Must Unlearn in Adulthood

    I found this entire article to be really interesting, because what child abuse survivor doesn’t struggle with this exact thing in one form or another? “The hardest part of recovering from a toxic childhood isn’t just coping with the fact that your emotional needs weren’t met or that you were actively neglected or even marginalized,…

  • Have You Been Labeled?

    The thing I suspect many people worry about, and something that makes me crazy to be honest, is when people see “abuse victim”, or especially “sexual abuse victim”, and their brain immediately takes the shortcut to everything society says about that label. Being a survivor of childhood abuse is not “one” thing, but having your identity boiled down to that “one” thing, is dehumanizing. This is especially true when the stereotypes that we believe about survivors, don’t match who we really are!

  • Links I’m Sharing (weekly) Aug 9, 2020

    10 Simple Ways to Love Yourself a Little More Each Day

    Can Childhood Trauma Make the Body and Brain Age Faster?

    6 Ways to Survive Survivor Guilt |

    Mental Health in the Digital Realm

    Childhood Trauma: Types, Causes, Signs, and Treatments

    Self-Care Sounds Simple, So Why Is It So Hard to Practice?

    Study Confirms Asking Directly About Suicide Doesn’t Cause More Harm

    What People Want to Hear When They’re Struggling

    Stopping the Cycle of Trauma: Parents Need Help for Trauma Too

    Mental health website for people with intellectual disability created with help of those with lived experience – ABC News

    – Good, it’s not often that we think about how our sites work for those with disabilities, I’m glad there are folks working to be more inclusive.

    How to Ask if Everything Is OK When It’s Clearly Not

    4 Reasons Taking Things Personally Prevents Healing

  • Sharing – Giving Ourselves Credit for Seemingly Small Wins

    You can read the article below for suggestions of things you should give yourself credit for. Then it’s up to you to understand how much you really do accomplish, even in the face of COVID-19, violence, and mass uncertainty.

    Her list might even spark some ideas for some other, small, things you can do, and then give yourself credit for doing.

    What are you giving yourself credit for today?

  • Links I’m Sharing (weekly) July 26, 2020

    Brian Cardoza on Surviving Abuse and Sex Trafficking

    The Science of How Our Minds and Our Bodies Converge in the Healing of Trauma

    5 Reasons Mental Illness Isn’t ‘Abnormal’ (And ‘Normal’ Doesn’t Exist)

    Linked: What to say to your boss if you’re struggling at work during COVID-19

    Brave Expressions. -Brave Expressions is a mental health storytelling platform that empowers people to express their experiences through any creative outlet. Our mission is to create a space where people can express their mental health stories, learn about others’ experiences, and know they’re not alone.

    How Scapegoating Is the Promotion of a False Family Narrative

    LSU student creates mental health hotline to combat stigmas in Black communities

    20 Mental Health Resources to Follow

    How growing and nurturing friendships can boost your mental and physical health

    Winning at all costs – how abuse in sport has become normalised

    Fight Loneliness by Expanding Your Circle of Concern

  • Links I’m Sharing (weekly) June 21, 2020

    LGBTQ+ youth are not alone. See these resources One Way To Be An Ally Right Now? Support Black Mental Health. Perpetrators of child sexual abuse use sport as cover, inquiry finds – I feel like this is not surprising. Suicide prevention: Removing stigma around mental health, watching out for warning signs are key measures –…