Sharing – The Brain Benefits of Social Connection

Sharing – The Brain Benefits of Social Connection

This is why I harp on this quite a bit. We lose people to depression and mental health struggles when they are disconnected from the people in their lives. Our best prevention is to remain connected, yet it’s become so easy today to be disconnected from each other. (I am perhaps more guilty of this than most, I admit. I should spend more time taking action on the tips in this article too.)

Memory Getting Worse, Struggling to Make Decisions? It Could be Stress

Memory Getting Worse, Struggling to Make Decisions? It Could be Stress

On the other hand, if we know this, maybe we can start to do something about it. That might look like finding ways to lower the stress we have some control over, understanding what is happening with our abilities in these areas, and seeing these struggles in others for what they are. In short, give ourselves and each other some grace and step back before making rash decisions or digging our heels in on decisions and beliefs. If we suffer cognitively when stressed, let’s admit that maybe, just maybe, we get stuff wrong occasionally.

We are human after all, and “to err is human.”

True Self-Care Is More Difficult Than We Make it Out to Be

True Self-Care Is More Difficult Than We Make it Out to Be

Yes, I believe in the importance of self-care. I will encourage it for everyone. It helps. But it can only help so much. Until this becomes a society that equally cares about everyone and actively seeks to offer care for everyone, self-care can only go so far. We need to recognize that and spend as much time promoting that as we do self-care.

Good News – People Probably Like You More Than You Think They Do

Good News – People Probably Like You More Than You Think They Do

The bad news, however, might be that almost everyone does this. So instead of connecting with each other, we are each stressing over all the things we may have done wrong when we interacted. Which isn’t great. That makes it harder to connect with other people, which has a ton of negative effects on our mental health.

Shared Links (weekly) Dec. 18 2022

Shared Links (weekly) Dec. 18 2022

Sharing – Growth Requires Unlearning as Much as Learning

Sharing – Growth Requires Unlearning as Much as Learning

As children in an abusive situation, we may have learned a lot of things that helped us survive that situation. Outside of that situation, as adults, however, it may be time to unlearn some of those things.

For example, we can’t learn to trust a person as an adult until we first unlearn that “fact” we took from childhood that no one was to be trusted. We can’t learn to love ourselves until we unlearn the blame and shame we took upon ourselves due to the abuse.