Creating a Facebook Group for SurvivorsPin

Creating a Facebook Group for Survivors

As most of you probably already know, there has been a Facebook page tied to this site for a number of years now, and a large number of you like or follow the new posts there.

That’s great, and I thank you!

In recent years, however, Facebook has made it really difficult to actually reach the people who have liked the page with new posts. Fearful that commercial businesses would soon be spamming the feeds of people who chose to like them on Facebook, they’ve instead pointed people to more “real” interactions in groups.

(insert eye-roll at Facebook here)

However, over the years that the page has existed over there, I have had some issues with people who would like to follow it, but for one reason or another, do not want all of their friends and followers to see it every time they like or comment on a post. Sometimes they even reach out to me about making the page private, but, alas, pages on Facebook can’t be private. They can only be public. This is actually another decent reason to have a group tied to the page.

For a long time, I resisted the urge to do it, however, because I didn’t really want the responsibility of being a group admin. I’m still not 100% sure about that, but I’m willing to start the group and see how it goes. So you can, as of about a week ago, now join the group over there as well.

For now, it is pretty locked down. I need to approve all members, and posts. We’ll see if that continues going forward. It’s also a private group, which means posts, comments, etc. are only seen by the other members. It won’t show up on the news feeds of your friends. (Unless, of course, they are also in the group)

I don’t plan on posting every blog post to the group the way I do on the page, bu for many of you, you may end up actually seeing more of them in your feed than you do now. (Thanks FB!) Plus, you’ll also, hopefully see posts and shared information from other members as well.

Of course, to keep it safe, there are rules, so do please read them before requesting to join, but I do hope you’ll join us there, and tell your friends who might be interested!

Similar Posts

  • |

    Recommending Some Podcast Episodes on the Mental Health of Young People

    Listen to both episodes. You’ll be challenged to think about youth mental health in a much broader sense. Hopefully, you will also see that these are not easy questions to answer and that existing in the world and planning for a future right now is hard. It’s no wonder that young people are struggling. It’s time we start taking serious steps toward making it less challenging for everyone and quit looking for a silver bullet that’ll fix it.

  • Civilian Support

    Regardless of which side of the going to war fence you are on, I hope you can at least agree that the families of the servicemen and women who are currently deployed in the Middle East deserve our support at this time. In that vein, Natalie is setting up Operation Civilian Support to: – Accept…

  • Holidays

    Hope your Christmas was good. Ours was actually pretty nice. It didn’t used to be this way. Christmas growing up was about getting presents, obviously, but it was also very stressful, never knowing where the family fights were going to start, what sort of snide comments were going to be made about you, etc. I…

  • More Techie Stuff

    I’m still in the process of cleaning up little things that I noticed are broken with the new hosting for both sites, so I haven’t had anything really insightful to say here, but I’m getting pretty close to having everything the way I want it to be. After that, I really want to dig into…

  • Quick Thought #18 – Sports as an Example of The Lens We See Life Through

    Just like in sports though, sometimes it’s not about how the world works, or what mistakes we made, it’s about the other team. In our case, it’s the abuser. They did this. Healing is understanding that, and coming to grips with the fact that our lens is wrong. We’re looking at someone else’s actions and choices through a lens that only sees ourselves. We were abused, maybe when we told someone, we weren’t believed, or maybe even as adults, when we share our experiences we make others uncomfortable. But it’s not us. Other people get to make their own choices, have their own reactions, and choose who, and what, to believe.

    What we need to do, is start untying other people actions and reactions, from ourselves. The abuser chose to abuse. The people who refused to help, made that choice, and the people who still don’t believe us, have their own reasons for doing that. None of it has anything to do with us, those are other people making their own choices, playing their own game. We can do everything right, live our life to the best of our abilities and still “lose” in these interactions. It happens. It doesn’t lessen us, it shows us who these other people are, and tells us about their agendas.

    We learn from that, and move on. We do not blame ourselves for their agendas.

    It does take developing a more mature lens to view life through, and that takes time, and work. Are you up for it? Or maybe the better question, are you tired of blaming yourself?

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

To respond on your own website, enter the URL of your response which should contain a link to this post's permalink URL. Your response will then appear (possibly after moderation) on this page. Want to update or remove your response? Update or delete your post and re-enter your post's URL again. (Find out more about Webmentions.)