My Apologies about the Comments

As you can imagine, this blog gets a lot of spam comments. Movable Type does a pretty good job of catching those so that you guys never see them. In fact, I have the settings set pretty tightly to avoid you having to deal with them, but sometimes that means things get caught incorrectly.Most of the time, things simply get marked “pending” until I approve them. I get an email every time a comment gets marked pending, so they tend to get approved the next time I’m on-line. Occasionally, however, good comments get marked as spam, and dumped into the spam folder. I used to take a peek in there every once in awhile to make sure nothing was in there that shouldn’t be, but had gotten out of the habit of doing that, mostly because it was very rare.

Apparently, over the last week or more, a handful of comments had gotten dumped in there that weren’t spam. I hadn’t noticed them in there until tonight, so some comments took a number of days before finally showing up on the site. I’m sorry, hopefully they’re all posted now, and I’ll try and do a better job of peeking in there so you don’t have to wait quite as long to see your comments show up!

Similar Posts

  • Quick Thought #14 – When it’s Someone You Know, You Know.

    Why do I see these two things as related? Well. let’s start with Sean Astin. It’s hard not to think that he has lived an amazingly privileged life. He’s been famous since he was a little kid, after growing up part of Hollywood royalty. If anyone has the means to shelter himself away from the harder topics of life, he’s one of those people. But he chooses not to, because he’s seen first hand what it is like to life with, and love someone with, mental health issues. That experience drives him to advocacy. He wants to share what it was like, and help others watching a mental health condition tear apart their own family.

    In short, he gets it because he knows.

    The same seems to be true when it comes to how serious COVID-19 really is. It seems to me there are a lot of people thinking it’s not very serious because well, no one they know has died or anything serious. 130,000 “other people” have died in the US. On the other hand, there are those of us who do know people who’ve died, or spent time hospitalized, tend to take it very seriously. Because we know. We’ve seen it. We’ve grieved because of it.

  • More messing around

    OK, so I changed my mind on the comments. Mostly, spammers changed my mind for me. Making the comments on all entries over 30 days old moderated kept the junk from hitting the live site, which I’m happy about, and it seemed like a good idea at the time. But 350 moderated comments later, I’m…

  • Share Your Own Review

    Over on the Survivors News and Review blog, we’ve setup a page for you to submit your own review of books, documentaries, movies, etc. that you have found really helpful. Naturally, there are rules about what can be submitted, but if you have something to share with the survivor community and don’t want to be…

2 Comments

  1. Thanks, Mike. Yeah, I need to check my junk mail folder more often, too. One month, a blog carnival submission went in there and I felt so bad that it took me a long time to discover it.

    Hey–now that you’re catching up on things. What about playing that “Survivor Needs” meme I created? I’d really like to get a male child abuse survivor’s perspective on it. Think about it and let me know, okay?

  2. Marj,

    I saw the meme, and have thought about it on and off, just haven’t gotten around to formulating a response, or even deciding if I can do it the way you’ve laid it out, or make some changes to the format. I’ll let you know if I do…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

To respond on your own website, enter the URL of your response which should contain a link to this post's permalink URL. Your response will then appear (possibly after moderation) on this page. Want to update or remove your response? Update or delete your post and re-enter your post's URL again. (Find out more about Webmentions.)