Child Abuse Survivor Blog

  • Small Wins

    I was having an email conversation with a friend the other day. We were talking about whether making small changes, maybe even relatively superficial ones, can lead to bigger changes. My feeling is that they absolutely can. It’s easy to look at the big picture of our lives, and decide that doing something small won’t…

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    Getting it Done

    One of the things I, and other survivors, struggle with is change. Change creates stress, and makes us uncomfortable, and if there’s anything survivors crave, it’s the comfort of what we know. New things tend to throw us, creating uncertainty and we have learn since early ages to try and keep things as certain as…

  • Quick Life Update

    With everything being brand new it’s been a little tough to develop any routine, let alone one that includes posting to the blog on a regular basis. After one week at the new job, I’m just starting to develop a bit of a routine there, but outside of work, life is really a work in…

  • One Day At a Time

    Recently, many of the people in my life have been dealing with either a loss, or the possibility of a loss of a loved one. As I’ve heard them talk, or seen them share updates online, I’m reminded that none of us knows how many days we have to be on this earth. Nor do…

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    Not Fooling

    So it’s April 1st. But for me, especially this year, it’s no time for pranks. 😉 April 1 was the day of my first date with the woman who would become my wife, in 2000, so it’s always been a day of great beginnings. This year, April 1 is the day I arrived in Greenville,…