Links (weekly)
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Golf Pro Anya Alvarez Shares Her Story of Surviving Child Abuse
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Dateline’s Focus on Stranger Safety Applies to Only 7% of Child Sex Offenders – child,sexual,abuse
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Male Sexual Abuse is on the Rise »
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Golf Pro Anya Alvarez Shares Her Story of Surviving Child Abuse
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Men – Military Sexual Assault Overlooked Victims
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Sexual Healing After Sexual Abuse
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Dateline’s Focus on Stranger Safety Applies to Only 7% of Child Sex Offenders – child,sexual,abuse
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It’s up to all of us to protect children from sexual abuse
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Recovering From Childhood Sexual Abuse
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We’re a long way from actual proof, but the research so far is showing some promise. This could be huge, as one of the most frustrating things for people who do finally make the effort to get help for mental health issues, is a lack of available resources. Being waitlisted for even an initial appointment…
I spent years believing that most people, at the point where they would attempt to take their own lives, if they were stopped but not offered more than that, would continue trying. I’d bet many of you thought that was common knowledge.
But what if it’s not true? What if an act that prevented it- a disruption- would turn out to also be a turning point?
Consider how often a child is not believed because the family friend or member “doesn’t seem like the type?”
That’s familial grooming. That is getting the family to see you as one thing when you are targeting a child in that family, thereby not only giving you access to the child but creating doubt about whether their own child is telling the truth. It also doesn’t help that so many of us think we know what a predator looks like, and are so easily fooled:
One of the easiest ways to dismiss a survivor is to openly wonder “why it took so long to come forward”, without any understanding that coming forward is the exception, not the norm. Many, many victims never come forward at all, and most who do come forward do so well after the fact. That’s normal, not immediately rushing to tell someone.
Mark it down Canada. Based on what I’ve seen on social media in past years, this has been a huge success not only in terms of raising awareness, but also hard cash! Also note, for some of these, you don’t even have to be Canadian to take part. “Bell donates 5 cents to Canadian mental…
I wanted to share this with you because John Oliver makes some important points about how we have made so many strides in acceptance and encouraging people that it is OK to ask for help, and then the system doesn’t provide it. Sadly things have gotten so bad that we’re trying just about anything, and even the technology isn’t living up to the hype.
Real people with real needs are left with nowhere to turn. A society that claims to care about people cannot accept that status quo.