“On the last day, the state-appointed therapist said to me, “You’re a survivor. You didn’t fail; an adult failed you.” “
Being a child abuse survivor isn’t something we should be ashamed of, being strong enough to survive what happened is a sign of strength, not weakness.
I’ve written over the last few months about my diagnosis of diabetes and the medical care I’ve gotten. I appreciate the fact that my treatment plan included providers asking about my mental health. This kind of thing can be overwhelming, and in that kind of situation, it never hurts to ask and check on someone’s mental health. I don’t think everyone gets that same level of concern, and I’m not sure that, outside of a life-changing diagnosis, anyone would have been checking on my mental health in the same way.
There really isn’t anything wrong in doing whatever works for you, regardless of how other people feel about it. This made me chuckle – I’m glad you care. I’m delighted that you know some stuff. I’m not interested in your advice unless you’re my doctor, however. So the next time you’re tempted to criticize my…
It’s not that we shouldn’t look at the individual cases; we should. But we have to address the systemic harm done to mental health by these issues. We have to stop pretending that economic issues don’t create mental health risks and ignore the real harm we do when we do nothing to lift people out of poverty or end racism and economic deprivation beyond calling anyone who wants to do those things a socialist.
It’s not working. It’s not solving the real problem.
This is a sad read, but I do believe this is correct – There are myriad reasons that elderly adults are more susceptible to the nation’s 10th leading cause of death. One of the most prevalent is loneliness. Older adults often live in isolation and may be struggling with the death of a lifelong husband…
On one hand, I think we could eliminate a lot of the stigma around depression, anxiety, PTSD and ADHD if we understood them to be fairly common, and normal responses to abnormal events.
On the other though, I’m concerned that trying to explain away something that can be as debilitating as depression can be could lead to an increase in people not taking it seriously. Which could lead to people not getting help as needed for it, and being blamed for not just dealing with it, etc.
I also worry that if we define mental health conditions very strictly, we’ll be increasing the stigma of those with other disorders like bipolar, or schizophrenia.
Never let it be said that being a victim of child abuse is a life sentence to misery. Survivors have gone on to do amazing things, just like any other group of people. Overcoming isn’t easy, but thanks to survivors like Kayla who are willing to share their stories, and their triumphs, we can all…
This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.
“Being a child abuse survivor isn’t something we should be ashamed of, being strong enough to survive what… https://t.co/onYDGfayYi
RT @TheNikkiDuBose: “Being a child abuse survivor isn’t something we should be ashamed of, being strong enough to survive what… https://t…
Amy Mallon liked this on Facebook.
Nikki DuBose liked this on Facebook.
Sharon Hoyt liked this on Facebook.
Jo Heath liked this on Facebook.
Nicole Siya liked this on Facebook.
Shugga Lazey liked this on Facebook.
Cas Roberts liked this on Facebook.
Maggie Coop liked this on Facebook.
Sherry Song liked this on Facebook.
Robin Swingler liked this on Facebook.
RT @TheNikkiDuBose: “Being a child abuse survivor isn’t something we should be ashamed of, being strong enough to survive what… https://t…
Sue Barker liked this on Facebook.
Link – We Are Survivors – – https://t.co/8CWp2OqCwl via @Survivornetwork
Lisa Parker liked this on Facebook.