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6 Ways to Protect Your Child from Sexual Abuse tags: CA why calling abusers “monsters” may be a bad thing tags: CA Sex, Violation, Power: “Our society says ‘it’s on you, you’re a guy, you should have stopped this.’” | tags: CA For 25 years, Rachel was haunted by the teacher who sexually abused her…
Link – Is It Okay to Disclose Mental Illness at Work?
Ashley provides some insight from her own experiences, but I think it all comes down to this: “If you have a mental illness and work at either a paid job or a volunteer gig, chances are at some point you’ll be faced with the question of whether to disclose your mental illness at work, and…
What I’m Sharing for Survivors (weekly)
You’re Not Alone: What College Doesn’t Teach You About Depression tags: CA Depression Matt Haig: ‘People handle you differently when they know you’re depressive’ There’s no question this is true. It was my experience as well. tags: CA Depression Six Ways We Enable Abusers tags: CA ChildAbuse How We’re Affected by the Lies Our Abuse…
Sharing – What to Say to the Person with Mental Illness
You will not go through life never knowing anyone who is dealing with mental health issues. You might go through life never being trusted enough for anyone to tell you about theirs, but educating yourself will go a long way to being useful, and supportive, to the people you care about.
Seriously, go read it. And save it.
Sharing – Sexual abuse: Why young males are often invisible victims
I grew up in a world where having my friends and other parents think I was gay seemed worse than just continuing to be abused. Think about that for a minute. Think about what we tell boys about being a man and how society reacts to men who share that they were sexually abused as a child? Is there anything about it that screams “Tell your story. We support you!”.
There are some small pockets of that online and in certain circles, but it’s going to also come with a lot of questions about why you didn’t fight, how you’re destined to now be an abuser, that you enjoyed it, etc.
Female victims of almost all ages will get asked about what they were wearing, how much they drank, etc. That’s wrong.
Male victims will get our own set of questions, mostly about why we didn’t fight, why we were so weak, are we gay? That’s equally as wrong.
Mike Tyson’s Admission Can Put Another Nail in the Stigma Coffin
Recently, former boxer Mike Tyson publicly admitted to having been sexually abused as a child. As the Atlanta Black Star quotes Darwin Hobbs: “There is so much stigma around sexual abuse. But when someone like Tyson, a strong Black man, reveals it’s happened to him, it really helps reduce this notion that you are counted…
