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  • Sharing – I wrote a memoir about abuse. That doesn’t mean you’re entitled to every detail
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    Sharing – I wrote a memoir about abuse. That doesn’t mean you’re entitled to every detail

    ByMikeM October 26, 2020October 26, 2020 Reading Time: 2 minutes

    Every survivor has the freedom to choose how, when, and in what detail, they want to share their story. You can ask for more, but you also have to respect the survivor’s choice to not answer. They don’t owe you that. The only time it’s really even appropriate to press for details if you’re a criminal prosecutor trying to help the survivor bring the abuser to justice.

    Outside of that very specific situation? No, we don’t owe you anything. You can support a survivor without knowing all the details. In fact, respecting their boundaries around what they decide to share, is one great way to support them in their healing. They’ve already had too many people not respect their boundaries.

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    Sharing – National Well-Being Before and During the Pandemic

    ByMikeM October 22, 2020October 22, 2020 Reading Time: 4 minutes

    When I compare my personal experience to the overall statistics, again I can see where it is also kind of all over the place, because it’s individual. In some ways, I’m doing pretty well, in others, not so much. None of us are exactly the same, or living with the same circumstances. So as global as this pandemic is, the effects have been incredibly diverse. That person you are working with on a Zoom call, the medical professional, the person taking your to-go order, that teacher your kid is learning from, or even those kids and their parents are all dealing with any multitude of impacts that we know nothing about, and probably never will. The one thing we do know, is that they are being impacted. 

    We would do well, as a society to take advantage of this very obvious opportunity to learn that we are all impacted in different way by events, and to take the time to listen to how someone who isn’t like us, is impacted. This is a great time to understand the large scale of the world and all of the different experiences within it. Maybe we could at least settle for understanding that our own individual situations, are not representative of everyone. Not even close, in fact. 

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  • Sharing – If You Want to Find Healing, Sometimes You Have to Stop Looking For It
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    Sharing – If You Want to Find Healing, Sometimes You Have to Stop Looking For It

    ByMikeM October 20, 2020October 20, 2020 Reading Time: 1 minute

    I really like the way Melissa ends the post below:   “We are so often focused on the destination that we fail to see how much we are actually accomplishing. We don’t give ourselves credit for the wins, no matter how small they may seem and we certainly don’t give ourselves grace on the days…

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    Are You Doom-Scrolling the News and Want Something Else?

    ByMikeM October 19, 2020November 8, 2020 Reading Time: 1 minute

    This collection of articles on Pocket might be a place to look for something else to do. https://getpocket.com/explore/item/how-to-destress-from-the-news Let’s face it, we’ve spent months dealing with bad news, uncertainty, and well, just kind of life being a mess in so many ways. Far too many people are feeling stuck in anxiety and depression, with no…

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    Sharing – QAnon’s Obsession With SaveTheChildren Is Making It Harder To Save Kids From Traffickers

    ByMikeM October 16, 2020October 16, 2020 Reading Time: 2 minutes

    This is the reality, and why the lies are not harmless.

    “In reality, child trafficking in the U.S. doesn’t look like a bunch of Hollywood and D.C. elites performing satanic rituals on children they stole from suburban playgrounds. Instead, kids who are sexually exploited are often poor, children of color, immigrants, or some combination of the three, and they’ve often been in the child welfare system or run away from home. In 2018, 1 in 7 kids who were reported as runaways to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children were likely victims of child sex trafficking, according to UNICEF.

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    Would you Rather Talk Mental Health with a Bot?

    ByMikeM October 15, 2020October 15, 2020 Reading Time: 2 minutes

    I’m glad so many people are open to having a robot therapist, because as we have discussed many times, we don’t have nearly enough therapists to treat everyone who needs it, and you can’t just create more trained therapists very quickly. With good enough artificial intelligence programming, we CAN spin up more trained chat robots to meet the need. Is the programming good enough today? I don’t know. I’m guessing there is still some work to do, but at what point is it better than what we have now for so many people, which is nothing?

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