Olympic Swimmer Speaks of Surviving Child Abuse

ESPN is currently running an article about Olympic silver medalist Margaret Hoelzer, who decided after her success at the Olympic Games to use her new found platform to tell her story of being molested as a child.

It’s a wonderful article, and there is so much that she talks about that I think many of us will identify with, please go read it.

Thank you Margaret, for telling your story, and helping the many, many survivors out here feel a little less alone with our own trust issues!

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