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Create a Culture of Prevention
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Men fear revealing sexual abuse: Voice of Russia
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Strengthen child abuse reporting law advocate says
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Socialization and Its Impact on Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse
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The Truth About My Abuser’s Threats
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I have to admit, I did not know this. “A 2012 paper by the American Association of Suicidology cites decades of studies that underscore the training gap, and experts say not much has changed in the last several years. It found about half of psychology students receive formal classroom training on suicide during their graduate education. Only…
I like the fact that they not only offer concrete things to say but also some background on how to define your own boundaries and what that means. I know for may survivors, we have to first address the core issue, the elephant in the room, before we can start the practice, so let me just go ahead and say that:
You deserve to set your own boundaries.
Full stop. Let that sink in, let it rattle around in your brain, keep reading it until you believe that about yourself.
Then, go take a look at the practical examples of doing that.
What boundaries do you struggle with? What has helped you do better at maintaining them?
You know, many of us are guilty of this. We like to suggest that people feel their emotions, but we never really define what that means. I enjoyed the article below because it talks specifically about what it’s not, fighting not to feel them, or feeding them so much that they swallow us whole.
That’s our blind spot. We’re so busy looking for creepy, anti-social, stereotypes that we miss the charming abusers right in our midst, and we miss all the signs and hints that our kids might be dropping because we just didn’t stop to consider that adult to be dangerous. We just assumed they were safe, and our kids would somehow know better anyway.
Clearly, that strategy isn’t working.
6 Ways to Protect Your Child from Sexual Abuse tags: CA why calling abusers “monsters” may be a bad thing tags: CA Sex, Violation, Power: “Our society says ‘it’s on you, you’re a guy, you should have stopped this.’” | tags: CA For 25 years, Rachel was haunted by the teacher who sexually abused her…
Today, Jan 11 is Human Trafficking Awareness Day, and given that I wanted to share these facts and a link to where you can get more information about how to identify possible trafficking. FACTS ABOUT HUMAN TRAFFICKING Source: United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime Every country in the world is affected by human trafficking,…