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In a fairly quiet note last week, the investigation into accusations by two former Syracuse University ball boys against former assistant coach Bernie Fine was dropped, without any charges being filed. Coming on the heels of the Jerry Sandusky case, this seemingly similar case got lots of national media attention in the US when the…

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Nurse with CSA images from 2011 struck off and cold case rapists jailed

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Local North East London newspaper The Wood and Vale reported on a senior nurse that was struck off following the discovery of 370 child abuse and bestiality images on his computer. Stuart Cross was jailed for 21 months in 2011 and placed on the Sex Offender’s Register for a decade. Following his parole the Nursing…

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Someone living near poverty will say the same thing, and we start looking at whether they should have their kids removed from the home or how we can keep them away from a “safe” society.</p> <p>It gets worse if they are not white and/or have a more serious mental health issue.</p> <p>That’s not right. Everyone deserves quality mental health care. We shouldn’t divide who gets the care and who doesn’t based on what kind of mental health issue they have or who they are. That’s no way to solve this issue.</p> <div class='sharedaddy sd-block sd-like jetpack-likes-widget-wrapper jetpack-likes-widget-unloaded' id='like-post-wrapper-4580281-12344-6a8e666cd2b6f' data-src='https://widgets.wp.com/likes/?ver=16.1.2#blog_id=4580281&post_id=12344&origin=www.childabusesurvivor.net&obj_id=4580281-12344-6a8e666cd2b6f' data-name='like-post-frame-4580281-12344-6a8e666cd2b6f' data-title='Like or Reblog'><h3 class="sd-title">Like this:</h3><div class='likes-widget-placeholder post-likes-widget-placeholder' style='height: 55px;'><span class='button'><span>Like</span></span> <span class="loading"><svg class="jetpack-spinner" width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 100 100" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" aria-hidden="true" focusable="false"><circle cx="50" cy="50" r="46" fill="none" stroke="#ddd" stroke-width="8"/><path d="M 50 4 A 46 46 0 0 1 96 50" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="8" stroke-linecap="round"><animateTransform attributeName="transform" type="rotate" dur="1.4s" from="0 50 50" to="360 50 50" repeatCount="indefinite"/></path></svg><span class="screen-reader-text">Loading…</span></span></div><span class='sd-text-color'></span><a class='sd-link-color'></a></div> </div> <footer class="entry-footer"> <div class="entry-actions"> <p class="more-link-wrap"> <a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2022/12/19/sharing-who-gets-to-be-mentally-ill/" class="post-more-link"> Read More<span class="screen-reader-text"> Sharing – Who Gets to Be Mentally Ill?</span><span class="kadence-svg-iconset svg-baseline"><svg aria-hidden="true" class="kadence-svg-icon kadence-arrow-right-alt-svg" fill="currentColor" version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="27" height="28" viewBox="0 0 27 28"><title>Continue</title><path d="M27 13.953c0 0.141-0.063 0.281-0.156 0.375l-6 5.531c-0.156 0.141-0.359 0.172-0.547 0.094-0.172-0.078-0.297-0.25-0.297-0.453v-3.5h-19.5c-0.281 0-0.5-0.219-0.5-0.5v-3c0-0.281 0.219-0.5 0.5-0.5h19.5v-3.5c0-0.203 0.109-0.375 0.297-0.453s0.391-0.047 0.547 0.078l6 5.469c0.094 0.094 0.156 0.219 0.156 0.359v0z"></path> </svg></span> </a> </p> </div> </footer> </div> </article> </li><li class="entry-list-item carousel-item splide__slide"><article class="entry content-bg loop-entry post-15988 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-links tag-friendship tag-mentalhealth tag-support tag-therapy tag-uk"> <a aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" role="presentation" class="post-thumbnail kadence-thumbnail-ratio-2-3" aria-label="Sharing – Friendship and mental health" href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2024/08/24/sharing-friendship-and-mental-health/"> <div class="post-thumbnail-inner"> <img width="768" height="453" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-3695297-scaled-e1619332744581.jpg?fit=768%2C453&ssl=1" class="attachment-medium_large size-medium_large wp-post-image" alt="Something Worth Reading" decoding="async" loading="lazy" /> </div> </a> <div class="entry-content-wrap"> <header class="entry-header"> <div class="entry-taxonomies"> <span class="category-links term-links category-style-normal"> <a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/category/links/" class="category-link-links" rel="tag">Links</a> </span> </div> <h3 class="entry-title"><a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2024/08/24/sharing-friendship-and-mental-health/" rel="bookmark">Sharing – Friendship and mental health</a></h3><div class="entry-meta entry-meta-divider-dot"> <span class="posted-by"><span class="meta-label">By</span><span class="author vcard"><a class="url fn n" href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net">MikeM</a></span></span> <span class="posted-on"> <time class="entry-date published" datetime="2024-08-24T13:09:28-05:00" itemprop="datePublished">August 24, 2024</time><time class="updated" datetime="2024-08-24T12:49:30-05:00" itemprop="dateModified">August 24, 2024</time> </span> <span class="kt-reading-time-wrap"><span class="kt-reading-time"> <span class="kt-reading-time-label">Reading Time:</span> 1 <span class="kt-reading-time-postfix">minute</span> </span></span></div> </header> <div class="entry-summary"> <p>What I appreciate most is that in putting this together, they recognize the importance of support and connection from the people in our lives every day instead of just telling people to go to therapy and not worry about the strength of their relationships. We’ve spent far too long avoiding talking directly about mental health because even saying you have a therapist is considered taboo. </p> <div class='sharedaddy sd-block sd-like jetpack-likes-widget-wrapper jetpack-likes-widget-unloaded' id='like-post-wrapper-4580281-15988-6a8e666cd36c9' data-src='https://widgets.wp.com/likes/?ver=16.1.2#blog_id=4580281&post_id=15988&origin=www.childabusesurvivor.net&obj_id=4580281-15988-6a8e666cd36c9' data-name='like-post-frame-4580281-15988-6a8e666cd36c9' data-title='Like or Reblog'><h3 class="sd-title">Like this:</h3><div class='likes-widget-placeholder post-likes-widget-placeholder' style='height: 55px;'><span class='button'><span>Like</span></span> <span class="loading"><svg class="jetpack-spinner" width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 100 100" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" aria-hidden="true" focusable="false"><circle cx="50" cy="50" r="46" fill="none" stroke="#ddd" stroke-width="8"/><path d="M 50 4 A 46 46 0 0 1 96 50" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="8" stroke-linecap="round"><animateTransform attributeName="transform" type="rotate" dur="1.4s" from="0 50 50" to="360 50 50" repeatCount="indefinite"/></path></svg><span class="screen-reader-text">Loading…</span></span></div><span class='sd-text-color'></span><a class='sd-link-color'></a></div> </div> <footer class="entry-footer"> <div class="entry-actions"> <p class="more-link-wrap"> <a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2024/08/24/sharing-friendship-and-mental-health/" class="post-more-link"> Read More<span class="screen-reader-text"> Sharing – Friendship and mental health</span><span class="kadence-svg-iconset svg-baseline"><svg aria-hidden="true" class="kadence-svg-icon kadence-arrow-right-alt-svg" fill="currentColor" version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="27" height="28" viewBox="0 0 27 28"><title>Continue</title><path d="M27 13.953c0 0.141-0.063 0.281-0.156 0.375l-6 5.531c-0.156 0.141-0.359 0.172-0.547 0.094-0.172-0.078-0.297-0.25-0.297-0.453v-3.5h-19.5c-0.281 0-0.5-0.219-0.5-0.5v-3c0-0.281 0.219-0.5 0.5-0.5h19.5v-3.5c0-0.203 0.109-0.375 0.297-0.453s0.391-0.047 0.547 0.078l6 5.469c0.094 0.094 0.156 0.219 0.156 0.359v0z"></path> </svg></span> </a> </p> </div> </footer> </div> </article> </li><li class="entry-list-item carousel-item splide__slide"><article class="entry content-bg loop-entry post-1156 post type-post status-publish format-standard hentry category-news tag-abuse tag-uk"> <div class="entry-content-wrap"> <header class="entry-header"> <div class="entry-taxonomies"> <span class="category-links term-links category-style-normal"> <a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/category/news/" class="category-link-news" rel="tag">In the News</a> </span> </div> <h3 class="entry-title"><a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2011/09/18/uk-false-accusation-stories/" rel="bookmark">UK False Accusation stories</a></h3><div class="entry-meta entry-meta-divider-dot"> <span class="posted-by"><span class="meta-label">By</span><span class="author vcard"><a class="url fn n" href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/author/ken/">CBG</a></span></span> <span class="posted-on"> <time class="entry-date published" datetime="2011-09-18T22:26:46-05:00" itemprop="datePublished">September 18, 2011</time><time class="updated" datetime="2011-09-12T22:27:35-05:00" itemprop="dateModified">September 12, 2011</time> </span> <span class="kt-reading-time-wrap"><span class="kt-reading-time"> <span class="kt-reading-time-label">Reading Time:</span> 1 <span class="kt-reading-time-postfix">minute</span> </span></span></div> </header> <div class="entry-summary"> <p>As part of our general late summer catchup, UK Newspaper the Daily Mail published two stories about false allegations of rape and child sexual abuse over the long weekend at the end of August. The first, which had hallmarks of some American college cases where consensual sex was recorded on a mobile phone and proved…</p> <div class='sharedaddy sd-block sd-like jetpack-likes-widget-wrapper jetpack-likes-widget-unloaded' id='like-post-wrapper-4580281-1156-6a8e666cd4397' data-src='https://widgets.wp.com/likes/?ver=16.1.2#blog_id=4580281&post_id=1156&origin=www.childabusesurvivor.net&obj_id=4580281-1156-6a8e666cd4397' data-name='like-post-frame-4580281-1156-6a8e666cd4397' data-title='Like or Reblog'><h3 class="sd-title">Like this:</h3><div class='likes-widget-placeholder post-likes-widget-placeholder' style='height: 55px;'><span class='button'><span>Like</span></span> <span class="loading"><svg class="jetpack-spinner" width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 100 100" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" aria-hidden="true" focusable="false"><circle cx="50" cy="50" r="46" fill="none" stroke="#ddd" stroke-width="8"/><path d="M 50 4 A 46 46 0 0 1 96 50" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="8" stroke-linecap="round"><animateTransform attributeName="transform" type="rotate" dur="1.4s" from="0 50 50" to="360 50 50" repeatCount="indefinite"/></path></svg><span class="screen-reader-text">Loading…</span></span></div><span class='sd-text-color'></span><a class='sd-link-color'></a></div> </div> <footer class="entry-footer"> <div class="entry-actions"> <p class="more-link-wrap"> <a href="https://www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews/2011/09/18/uk-false-accusation-stories/" class="post-more-link"> Read More<span class="screen-reader-text"> UK False Accusation stories</span><span class="kadence-svg-iconset svg-baseline"><svg aria-hidden="true" class="kadence-svg-icon kadence-arrow-right-alt-svg" fill="currentColor" version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="27" height="28" viewBox="0 0 27 28"><title>Continue</title><path d="M27 13.953c0 0.141-0.063 0.281-0.156 0.375l-6 5.531c-0.156 0.141-0.359 0.172-0.547 0.094-0.172-0.078-0.297-0.25-0.297-0.453v-3.5h-19.5c-0.281 0-0.5-0.219-0.5-0.5v-3c0-0.281 0.219-0.5 0.5-0.5h19.5v-3.5c0-0.203 0.109-0.375 0.297-0.453s0.391-0.047 0.547 0.078l6 5.469c0.094 0.094 0.156 0.219 0.156 0.359v0z"></path> </svg></span> </a> </p> </div> </footer> </div> </article> </li> </ul> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div id="comments" class="comments-area"> <div id="respond" class="comment-respond"> <h3 id="reply-title" class="comment-reply-title">Leave a Reply<small><a rel="nofollow" id="cancel-comment-reply-link" href="/reviews/2019/08/25/links-im-sharing-weekly-30/?noamp=mobile#respond" style="display:none;">Cancel reply</a></small></h3> <form id="commentform" class="comment-form"> <iframe title="Comment Form" src="https://jetpack.wordpress.com/jetpack-comment/?blogid=4580281&postid=7849&comment_registration=0&require_name_email=0&stc_enabled=1&stb_enabled=1&show_avatars=1&avatar_default=mystery&greeting=Leave+a+Reply&jetpack_comments_nonce=ecd97f54c6&greeting_reply=Leave+a+Reply+to+%25s&color_scheme=light&lang=en_US&jetpack_version=16.1.2&iframe_unique_id=1&show_cookie_consent=10&has_cookie_consent=0&is_current_user_subscribed=0&token_key=%3Bnormal%3B&sig=e02d1a9b77af00edb54e77d0a06634269a7b8f50#parent=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.childabusesurvivor.net%2Freviews%2F2019%2F08%2F25%2Flinks-im-sharing-weekly-30%2F%3Fnoamp%3Dmobile" name="jetpack_remote_comment" style="width:100%; height: 430px; border:0;" class="jetpack_remote_comment" id="jetpack_remote_comment" sandbox="allow-same-origin allow-top-navigation allow-scripts allow-forms allow-popups" >

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