I know that feeling

I know the feeling Kevin talked about on his blog last night all too well. For all the guilt and depression I suffered through all the years of abuse, none of that feels as bad as disappointing a wife so worthy of my love and care.

Hang in there Kevin, the best thing about our wives is how much they see the good in us even when we don’t.

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  1. Hi, I just wanted to leave a comment, and say I think it is nice that you would donate raised money and that of your own to help others.

    I am a survivor of abuse, and wish I could do more for others who are hurting…

    Just wanted to say I think it is great that you are reaching out.


  2. You know, the thing about life that I notice the most is that it is a two way street.

    Relationships are a give and take thing, no matter who you are or what your past represents for you.

    Sometimes it is hard to be there for someone else when you can’t even be there for yourself, but if you are lucky, like I know you are…you have someone who really loves you and someone who will stay even during those times.

  3. Im waiting for my day in court I hope I can be as brave as Kevin. My wives couldn’t handle me. Now that I have healed somewhat I have tried to make amends to them for my “Toxic” behaviour. I wish all servivors the best of luck, we will need it. gardinerjr@rogers.com

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