This Week’s Links (weekly)
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‘Dancing’ Star to Talk About Child Abuse During Charity Luncheon Thursday
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You Can’t Always See Suicidal Intent | World of Psychology
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This might be worth bookmarking, or if you are currently dealing with children in trauma in your own family, you may find some resources that can help you today. So, I’m sharing and if you know someone in that situation, I’d ask that you share with them too.
