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Shared Links (weekly) Jan. 9 2022

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  • This Week’s Links (weekly)

    How Childhood Trauma Affects Adult Health tags: CA ChildAbuse Don’t dismiss kids who talk of suicide, no matter what age: experts tags: CA Depression How To Stop Anxiety, Flashbacks and Panic (pt 1) tags: CA ChildAbuse Depression’s Painful Effects on Friends and Family tags: CA Depression Posted from Diigo. The rest of my favorite links…

  • Review: Suffer The Children By Adam Creed (2009, UK)

    You could be forgiven for thinking that saturation of crime drama is beginning to result in repetition; just as the plot of the very first episode of CSI NY was influenced by Mark Billingham’s Sleepyhead, now we have Suffer The Children by Adam Creed (hereafter known as STC), which, like Ian Rankin’s Dead Souls 11…

  • Sharing – Why It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: Tips for Telling Someone You’re Struggling

    I cannot emphasize enough how difficult it is to talk about our struggles. We should never take that lightly. We should also never take lightly how much trust and vulnerability it takes for someone to choose us as the person they want to talk to about their mental health.

    Don’t take that for granted and please do not take that with anything less than the utmost seriousness. Dismissing someone who is talking about their mental health is a great way to make sure they don’t talk to anyone ever again.

    Don’t be the person who causes that.

  • Sharing – Generosity and Happiness

    As the post below goes on to explain, it’s not just being generous financially that has this effect on us, it can also be giving time by volunteering, or helping out someone who can use it, cooking a meal for them, helping them clean, etc. All of these ways of giving to another human being helps that person, and it helps us. It’s good for us.

    The other thing I’d like for many survivors to consider is finding a way to be generous during the holidays especially when you are struggling with the holidays to start with. Yes, I’ve seen many, many folks already starting to dread the holidays. They are estranged from their families, expect to spend the holidays alone, etc. It sucks, I won’t lie about that. But, consider finding a way to be generous, as a way to make the holidays a bit less lonely. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, or another place that may be serving holiday meals. Hop online and offer to chat with other folks in a similar situation over the holidays, make plans to get outside of your own situation, and find a way to give to someone else, even if it’s nothing more than time.

    That might be the better option for the holidays compared to just waiting for them to be over if you can find a way to do it.

  • NPR Station in Florida Has Series on Child Abuse Awareness and Prevention Month

    Radio station WUWF put together a handful of short stories and interviews on what it looks like when a child abuse claim is made, in terms of the investigation, the courtroom process, and what family counseling looks like. Some of the information may be specific to the location and to a specific resource, but if…

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    Sharing – What Is Secondary Trauma?

    When I started on this, I didn’t realize I’d be doing these sessions in the wake of layoffs and the middle of a bunch of other changes impacting these folks. Suddenly the conversation about their career goals has turned into a conversation about the trauma of going through a layoff.

    As I mentioned to someone recently, this was more emotional labor than I had anticipated.

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