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Sharing – Talking to Others About My Mental Health
ByMikeM June 20, 2022June 20, 2022 Reading Time: 2 minutes

I do understand this. I don’t make a habit of talking about my mental health when I get to spend time with friends, even though many of them read this blog and know about my history. Mostly, that’s because we’ve bonded for years over other things like work, shared interests, music, etc. Talking about mental health just hasn’t been what we’ve done in the past when we’re together and it’s comfortable to simply slide right back into those same roles when we are together.

There’s nothing wrong with that. Talking about mental health doesn’t have to occur each and every time we communicate with friends. We all get to have fun nights out without having that deep of a conversation. But, talking about it some of the time lets everyone in the group know that, when they need it, they can talk about it.

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Sharing – Most Male Suicides in Us Show No Link to Mental Health Issues
ByMikeM June 18, 2022June 18, 2022 Reading Time: 1 minute

The suggestion is that more focus should be on triggering events for men; breakups, job loss, and other traumas. That is true. The findings make it clear that a combination of triggering events, alcohol/drugs, and gun ownership will increase the likelihood of suicides.

Here’s the thing, though. I can’t help but wonder if the reason this combination is so deadly is not so much because men do not have mental health issues and then are suddenly contemplating suicide at the first sign of trauma, but that this is simply the final straw in a prolonged mental health struggle that they have never talked to anyone about.

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Sharing – 988 call centers struggling to hire people to answer the phones.
ByMikeM June 16, 2022June 16, 2022 Reading Time: 2 minutes

Creating a new number was the easy part. Similar to raising awareness because it’s necessary, it’s essential, but if there is no one there to provide the help we encourage people to reach out for, it’s not nearly enough. Here’s hoping these state and local organizations can find and train people to provide the necessary help during these calls. That’s only a start, of course. We still have so much work to do to make that help accessible to everyone who needs it.

In some ways, this struggle to staff the hotline is a microcosm of the entire mental health field right now. We need a lot of resources that just aren’t there right now. Can we figure out a way to get change that?

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Sharing – Seeing grieving as learning explains why the process takes time
ByMikeM June 15, 2022June 14, 2022 Reading Time: 2 minutes

So maybe, instead of agonizing over your friends not “being over it,” understand that they are learning a whole new way to navigate the world and figure out how you can help.

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Sharing – 3 Reasons Therapy Isn’t Always the Answer
ByMikeM June 14, 2022June 14, 2022 Reading Time: 1 minute

The first reason is one that we’ve talked a lot about here. Therapy can’t be the answer for everyone because it isn’t accessible to everyone.

So if it’s not accessible to everyone, we’d better figure out some other things that might help. She offers some.

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Learn How to Be There
ByMikeM June 11, 2022June 10, 2022 Reading Time: 1 minute

I found out about this online training recently and wanted to share it:

Learn to support someone struggling with their mental health through this online course created by Jack.org in partnership with Born This Way Foundation.

You can sign up on the website below and let us know what you think about it.

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