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To hide the child sexual abuse that I was suffering at home, I tried to be perfect. tags: CA Why Young Sexual Assault Victims Tell Incoherent Stories tags: CA Dylan Farrow’s Child Abuse Accusations : What Have We Learned About When, and How to Help Victims tags: CA Blog Against Child Abuse January 2014 Edition tags:…
Kurtis Gabriel, his fight with mental health, and why talking about it matters
Marginalized Mental Health Matters: What Experts Want You to Know
Understaffed State Psychiatric Facilities Leave Mental Health Patients in Limbo
How stigma prevents people from accessing mental health care and what can be done about it
Suicide Prevention Is a Million Caring Acts Far Before Crisis Intervention
Saving a life is not about having a hotline, though they do help. (If you’re struggling, you can find a list of resources here.) It’s not about offering advice like “touch grass” or exercise more. It’s about being in a community that will sit with us at our worst and reminds us that we can get through this because we are not going through it alone.
Too many of us are incapable of creating that community for our friends and family members. If we don’t, who will?
It’s being offered by the NHS in the UK. Basically, the idea is simple, answer five quick questions about how you’re sleeping, stress, anxiety, etc. and they’ll put together some resources that might help.
Of course, they will also suggest getting some professional help, and more formal resources and those kinds of suggestions should not be taken lightly, but I took the survey, and the things they offered me were things like plans to physically move more, sleep aids, and a mental health app that might help with some of my issues.
Whether or not you have a history of mental illness, talk to your children. Let them know that, while feelings like hopelessness, ennui, and irrational anger are normal in small doses, if they feel that way a lot of the time, they can get help. Let them know they never have to be ashamed of…