What I’m Sharing for Survivors (weekly)
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Why Depression Is Underreported In Men
tags: CA Depression
When a child confides in you about sexual abuse
tags: CA ChildAbuse
Sometimes the Most Respectful Gift is to Leave Us Alone this Holiday Season
tags: CA ChildAbuse
‘Depression and Christmas just don’t go’
tags: CA Depression
Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse December 2014 Edition
tags: CA ChildAbuse
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What Does Life Look Like Beyond Mental Health Stigma M Is for Mental Health Awareness Month Five Strategies for Coping with Anxiety During the Pandemic ‘Saved my life’: Support group for male sexual violence survivors see significant growth Northern Ireland Mental Health Arts Festival roles out virtual programme this week Mental health matters—and it’s ok…
I had the opportunity recently to read for review a copy of Bea Todd’s Appalachian Child: The Chronicles of an Abused Child and Her Journey to Survival. As always, when I first agreed to review it, I planned on getting it done earlier than this, but life and work got in the way! Bea’s book…
Depression tells you that you are alone. Knowing that there are other people, lots of other people, also dealing with it helps. It also helps to have a constant reminder that someone is on your side in this and looking for ways to remind you that you are not alone. If someone close to you is dealing with depression, and feeling alone, the best thing you can do is just be in their corner, helping them find help and connecting them with other people who can be part of their support network.
That’s how we fight back against something telling us we are alone.
There’s no language in this belief system for “some other person decided to hurt you for no reason at all and it had nothing to do with you”. There can’t be any language for that, because the entire system is self-centered.
The world isn’t. So please stop telling people who have suffered real harm that it’s all just lessons to learn, that simply excuses away harmful behavior, provides overly simple “fixes” for mental health issues, and places the blame for it square on the victim. That’s no way to support anyone.
A couple of years ago I shared some information about online courses to help raise awareness of child abuse. The same folks who designed those have released an iPhone app called Reduce the Risk: The free app Reduce the Risk shows how to recognise the signs of abuse either in your own relationship or in…