Link – Male rape victim tells his story: ‘My abuse happened within my family’

As always, a story of a man dealing with sexual abuse, catches my eyes, but Aaron’s story highlights one important thing, with the right help, we can overcome this.

As a male survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I received the right support from the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre (DRCC) and it has changed my life.

They question is, how many people can get the right help? Whether it’s a lack of resources overall, or a lack of resources for men, we fall way too short.

http://www.independent.ie/life/male-rape-victim-tells-his-story-my-abuse-happened-within-my-family-36199716.html

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