UK False Accusation stories

As part of our general late summer catchup, UK Newspaper the Daily Mail published two stories about false allegations of rape and child sexual abuse over the long weekend at the end of August.

The first, which had hallmarks of some American college cases where consensual sex was recorded on a mobile phone and proved the accusers to be lying, is here. The second, about coached false accusations of CSA which resulted in the accused father winning custody of the child, is here.

– CBG

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