This Week’s Links (weekly)
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The ‘Weakness Factor’: Men and Depression | World of Psychology
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Grooming, Mel Hall, and Disclosures Of Abuse: What Parents Need To Know
Posted from Diigo. The rest of my favorite links are here.
The ‘Weakness Factor’: Men and Depression | World of Psychology
tags: CA Depression
Consequences of Emotional Abuse | World of Psychology
tags: CA ChildAbuse
Thriving: The Prize of Healing from Abuse
tags: CA ChildAbuse
tags: CA ChildAbuse
Grooming, Mel Hall, and Disclosures Of Abuse: What Parents Need To Know
tags: CA ChildAbuse
Posted from Diigo. The rest of my favorite links are here.
As the article explains, we feel empathy for people who are most like us. Children and other victims may not look like us as much as the abuser does. We might even know the abuser and not know the victim. The mentally lazy thing is to let our familiarity with the accused abuser blind us to the reality of what is happening. The way to get out of that is to focus on the humanity of the victim just as much. When you have empathy for everyone, regardless of whether they are like you or not, you can react to the situation in front of you instead of your bias about the people involved.
Everyone deserves that. No matter how different they may be from us.
This is true for anyone working in the field of mental health, or crisis intervention, and it’s also true of advocates. I’ve seen it too many times: “While compassion fatigue can happen when helpers are unable to replenish and restore emotionally and physically (Figley, 1982), vicarious trauma is the shift you experience mentally from…
Study shows men just as likely to be depressed as women tags: CA On Marrying a Survivor of Childhood Sexual Abuse – Shonna Milliken Humphrey – The Atlantic tags: CA How to Find Someone to Talk to When You Can’t Afford Therapy tags: CA 5 Ways to Help a Depressed Friend tags: CA Posted from…
In times like this, it’s important to take advantage of the opportunity that just stopped us in our tracks. It may not seem like an opportunity; probably more like a road block, but it is a chance to add another tool to our survivor tool belt. This is true, even the struggles are part of moving forward, as…
Out of the Comfort Zone: Teaching Kids Body Safety — The Good Men Project tags: CA Abuse survivors tell of long road back from shame tags: CA Meet the Female Paedophile tags: CA Child Abuse Survivor Waives Anonymity After Years of Torment by Adoptive Father to Help Others tags: CA Male survivors of sexual abuse…
I shared this story about former professional baseball player Mel Hall across some of the social networks last night, but the more I read it, the more I am convinced that if you want to see grooming at it’s finest, go read some of the stories included in that piece. From a distance it might…
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